Nicest Way To Congrat A Newborn I Feel So Hurt Over Him? Please Read I Feel So Down Right Now!?

I feel so hurt over him? Please read I feel so down right now!? - nicest way to congrat a newborn

The man, whom I love, which is in the Air Force and the transfer to another place. I learned that he was still promoted, we agree often been made. Founf out that I had a website!
We have e-mail for this 4th July rather than earlier, and then he said he can count on me, no matter what.
I feel bad cuz it's like in contact with more than one years, he did not share it, something that will be important for him. I do not want to talk to him, but I feel bad not been able to congratulate him on his promotion.
It's like realizing that I am important to him, as I will, but he said he enjoys our friendship and it's so good to me. He knows that I'm herefor him.
What can I do to show care and I do not feel well, I must say something or not?